I was seeing this guy for five months. We were never exclusive. We became very, very good friends, but live two hours apart so the distance has been an issue in seeing each other. Nevertheless, we were in contact daily, and talked on the phone a LOT, for hours at a time. He is going through a divorce, and basically said he didn’t want to jump right into anything… but wanted to create something that would last.

About two months ago, we had an argument because of a a misunderstanding, and didn’t talk for almost a week. During this week, he went out with his brother to the bar and met a woman ten years his junior (he’s 33, she’s 23). They hit it off. At the time I didn’t know anything about her, but his attention from me had radically changed. I had suspicions he had met someone else, and so I ended up breaking it off with him as I was tired of five months of this and him not even being able to make a commitment to me.

They became exclusive almost immediately. In the meantime, he tells me “not to stop talking” to him and that I am his “best friend.” I tried to do this for a couple of weeks, but decided it was just too painful. I want him as more than a friend. So last week I told him I didn’t want him to contact me anymore. He was furious… told me he had considered me a real friend, not some “loose usage of the word,” and if that’s what I wanted then fine, I had it. I responded back and told him just for now, as my feelings for him were too strong, and when I got through them, I hoped we’d be friends again.

He responded that wasn’t acceptable. I can’t just ditch people on a whim and this was it. So we haven’t spoken in nearly a week. Now I’m second-guessing myself. I really care about him, and could see us being very happy together… we were very compatible, got along well, enjoyed each others’ company, etc.

If I want hope of us ever being together, would it be better to remain friends?? Or just take this time of no contact to get over it, and possibly contact him in a few months? By that time, he’ll either be in love with this girl or will have figured out she’s not the one.

This morning, I read a little item in Page Six about Sienna Miller reuniting with her alleged ex, Slinky Wizard (George Barker). It was an innocuous little report about the two of them shopping for vintage lingerie together, and how it looked like Sienna and Slinky were still together, despite the reports that they had split.

That was fast! Just days after Sienna Miller reportedly gave DJ Slinky Wizard the kiss-off, the PDA-friendly couple was shopping for vintage (but never worn) underwear in SoHo. Our spies caught the Broadway beauty and the Brit disc-spinner (real name, George Barker) snapping up the old-style undies, a “Heart Print” crop top and other items at Only Hearts on Mott Street yesterday.

“They seemed very much a couple,” said our snitch. “George was talking about how he was excited about their plans for the night.”

Last weekend, reports out of London had Miller dumping the Slink-man because she wasn’t up for a transatlantic romance.

“That didn’t look to be the case,” our spy said. And, despite seeming to be a bit behind schedule, Miller “was very pleasant and kind,” said our witness. “She left some pieces in the dressing room when she left and apologized to the staff for not bringing them back out to put on the selling floor.”

[From Page Six]

She tried on underwear and then left it on the floor of the dressing room? God, Sienna is so gross. Anyway, when I talked about Siennas alleged Slinky split earlier this week, I even noted that I thought there was a possibility that Sienna and Balthazar Getty could be secretly dating still. Now the Blathy has hit the fan! Michael K at Dlisted pointed out that Gawker has a source who claims that Sienna was actually with Balthy at Only Hearts, not Slinky. Gawker claims: We don’t know who’s right, but our snitch says she also saw Sienna shopping at the Only Hearts store in SoHo, but she wasn’t with Nobody Beats the Wiz, but with Balthazar Getty. We don’t know who is right, and actually it is kinda hard to tell them apart. Michael K even pulled a report from Pop Sugar (photos here)from earlier this week – where Balthy and Sienna were getting manicures together! Son of a

Sienna Miller was in a shaggy coat to walk her dog Bess in NYC yesterday, but her company this afternoon was a little more unexpected she was spotted getting manicures and massages alongside none other than Balthazar Getty.

The duo tried to go incognito and looked a little shaken up when they realized they’d been spotted. Sienna took off with Bess for another stroll, leaving Balthazar to head elsewhere in his Dodgers cap.

It was recently rumored that Sienna has officially parted ways from her Summer fling, George “Slinky Wizard” Barker, and Jude Law’s reps shot down whispers of their reconciliation. Sienna’s love life is never dull, but it looks like Balthazar’s back in the picture even if George and Jude aren’t.

[From Pop Sugar]

I totally believe that Balthy and Sienna are still together. I think theyve always been together, and theyve just been keeping their affair on the downlow because of all of the horrible press they both got. I think Sienna may have briefly dated Slinky Wizard, but her heart wasnt in it, probably because there was too little drama. I cant wait for Siennas next round of f-ck off, I was nave about Balthy interviews. Theres probably even a topless vacation with Balthy in her future!

Heres Sienna taking her dog for a walk in New York City this morning. Images thanks to BauerGriffinOnline.

I’ve got a female friend that wants to get into the adult webcam biz. I’m thinking about ways to help her make money and of course make some myself.

Maybe a JV with someone already driving traffic to affiliate sites, and to models etc?
Or maybe someone e-whoring that wants to JV?

Looking for some advice or opinions etc.
She’s willing to do niche type stuff (milf, nurse, etc. costumes) no hardcore tho.

I’m thinking twitter profile, dating site profiles, CL ads etc. Pre-recorded videos, selling her own content to webmasters etc.

Looking at the imlive scenario, they take quite a bit of commission and you have to sit in free chat and convert etc. in order to produce $$$ at a higher per minute rate.
I don’t think there’s enough $$$ in that unless customers get driven to her page.

Maybe someone can drive paying customers and we set up a partnership or commission for a partner? or partners?

pm me if you have any ideas, or JV etc.

Sienna Miller walks her dog as she meets up with a female friend on Sunday (November in New York City.

The 27-year-old actress has reportedly reunited with on-and-off boyfriend George Barker aka DJ Slinky Wizard. She recently moved to New York for her role in the Broadway production After Miss Julie.

Sienna also recently denied reports that she was rekindling her romance with Jude Law.

10 pictures insdie of Sienna Miller meeting up with a female friend…

Someone copying you is supposed to be the highest form of flatery. It might not seem like it when you are 10 and your 8 year-old-brother has to do everything you do, including touch your Barbies and make G.I. Joe invade the Barbie dream house. Oh, just me, okay then.

There are many, many people that I want to be like for various reasons. Another blogger gave me the perfect reason to call them out.

I saw a tweet yesterday from @ResourcefulMom and decided to check it out. She was tweeting about #FriendshipExperiment, started by another blogger at jessicaknows.com. This had “unexpected smile” written all over it. I could share my gratitude for my friends, make them smile and introduce them to the world so maybe you could connect with them. Maybe their musings will make you smile too. (I don’t have a lot of friends who are publicly online, but here are a few of them who are pretty interesting!)

To read more about the #FriendshipExperiement, visit Jessica’s post.

Here are my five.
The Minivan Diaries – Michelle, the author of this blog, is a good friend. I appreciate how strong she is as an employee, as a woman and as a mom. She’s great. One day, she will take over the world.
Brew Another Cup – The author of this blog, Jes, is someone who I have read for a few years now. She’s incredibly determined and productive and I wish I was that way.
Blue Water Scents – First of all, this is a small, Michigan-based, woman business owner. Woo hoo for economic stimulation. Second, she makes yummy smelling things that are a little piece of Heaven. And, she tweets more than I do.
bestefriend.com – This woman, Courtney, runs like a million sites, or maybe like four. But her motivation and her follow-through are amazing and inspiring. Plus, she gives me advice. I like her for that.
Last, but certainly not least, my best friend, Laura. You can find her on Twitter at @laura_angus. What to say about Laura other than I would have lost my sanity years ago if it wasn’t for her. Distance is no match for our friendship. She’s awesome.

I hope my friends smile a bit when they see that I do appreciate what they do in the world and in my life. They are each great people for what they do. I hope you enjoy meeting them as well. Now, it’s your turn.

Guys make great friends. If you know a really great guy, make him your friend. I have this guy friend and I love him to pieces literally, he is a GREAT GUY. You know what else great guys make? Great boyfriends. I am surrounded by great guys at my school. My boyfriend is an absolute sweetheart, I love him but I have my guy friends who I love too. Most ladies have this kinda status, many many guy friends while having a steady relationship with an actual boyfriend. Many ladies… well at least if their boyfriends are anything like mine have a constant fear around their guy friends whenever he is around.

I’m not a slut but I hang out with many guys, I find them sometimes more relateable than my girl friends but my boyfriend is so uptight whenever I am with them. There is this one guy I consider my best guy friend… let’s call him Rocker Dude (lame but bear with me). Me and him go way back and truly I do love him, we share common interests, like the same type of music… we are really close. We’d been close for way longer than I have known my current boyfriend. Now, Boyfriend and Rocker are friends but since we started dating, he and Rocker aren’t that close anymore. He told Rocker to stay the hell away from me! Can you believe that? I didn’t take that lying down, I haven’t changed a thing about mine and Rocker’s relationship, why? Because I LOVE HIM AND HE IS MY FRIEND. He actually took Boyfriend’s threat for a while but we are cool now but I’m not sure the same can be said for Boyfriend.

The rumor mill says that he still gets mad when I talk to Rocker and as the good girlfriend I am I asked him if he was okay with it. He said he was.

He might not be deep down but he can’t expect me to throw away that kind of a relationship, there is no way I am going to. I don’t mean any disrespect or tartness by it, I love him but my boyfriend can’t be the only prominent figure in my social life. If this ‘being mad’ pushes him to the point of breaking up with me, well I will be sad, I might cry… maybe even put on ten pounds but I will still have Rocker and the rest of my friends. I would make every compromise to keep the two guys the way I like em’.

Tell me, do you dump your guy friend for your boyfriend’s sake or do you tell boyfriend to get an effing grip?

Have you ever wondered where all your friends from college are? Or have you wondered if anyone is looking for you? With today technologies, looking for your old friends becomes much easier to manage.

MyLife website makes this task possible to locate anyone on your wish list. Not only this website allows you to search for old friends, it also lets you see who is looking for you! It is one of largest sites on the internet to search for people that you want to reconnect, or curious about.

One very special person to me that I periodically looking for is a lady that I’ve met through our marriages. Since both of our marriages failed, and we moved many times during these times, we both lost contact. Therefore, I went on MyLife website and entered the information that I last known about her for a search.

The returning results were overwhelming with so many people with the same name, location, and age. Therefore, I narrowing down a bit further to her maiden name, her home place in Pennsylvania, and finally tracked her to her home in California!

It turned out that she has also been searching for me, and we are both happy to be able to get back in touch. Our relationship is a once in a life time special bond when we share so much of the same thoughts, feelings, and passions, and it is not easy to establish.

We have planned for a reunion this Fall to reminisce the first time we met! If you are looking for someone special in your life, check out this website, and reconnect with that person.

I’ve received too many Christmas Cards last year 2008. I got 63 Chirstmas Cards greetings from online friends and friends here in Carolina too. In the year 2008 i only got 25 Christmas Cards maybe because i was not active anymore in any online networking so much. Because i was busy making online money on blogging world. In this year 2009 i hope i will still receive few greetings from a friend to all my online friends. Friends from neighborhood, friends from every where around the world.

Last year its was very meaningful to me. Because i found a lot of true friends around the corner. Friends you know who you are…hope your not going to be changed. I hope that our friendship will last forever and it will not wither in one spun of test, trial along the way. Friends is hard to find.

Might Caught your Attention…

A woman meets with her lover,
who is also her husband’s best friend.

They make love for hours.
Afterwards, as they lie in bed, the phone rings.

Since it’s the woman’s house,
she picks up the receiver.

The best friend listens,
only hearing her side of the conversation:

“Hello ? Oh, hi… I’m so glad that you called… Really ?
That’s wonderful…

Well, I’m happy to hear you’re having such a great time…
Oh, that sounds terrific…

Love you, too. OK. Bye-bye.”

She hangs up the telephone and her lover asks,
“Who was that ?”

“Oh,” she replies, “That was my husband telling me
about the wonderful time
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he’s having on his fishing trip with you.”

As Lilu always says: ***Alright, folks, you know the rules. Join us all in humiliating the crap out of yourself every Thursday by sharing some completely tasteless, wholly unclassy, “how many readers can I estrange THIS week??” TMI story about your life. Or hell, about someone else’s!

Make sure you check out Lilu’s site today for her special post secret TMI edition, and check out her TMI Thursday archives for all sorts of hilarity!

***Carissajaded here. As today is my best friend LA’s Birthday, and I am poor, I granted her the only wish I could. Oh yes, I have handed my blog over and given her the opportunity of a lifetime, to tell the most embarrassing story she can about me. And she knows a lot. I am not allowed to edit this story in any way. I now hand the mic over to LA!

It might have been a regular hungover Sunday afternoon.  Either way, it’s a great story.

I should take this one small moment to say, this is not a CarissaJaded.  I was given an opportunity today to “guest blog” because it’s my birthday. I’m taking full advantage.  Karma is a bitch.

And without further ado… I need to start at the beginning.

We had a friend who was soon to be married.  I know, I know… To many, that’s the scariest part of the story - it gets better – trust me.

We, of course, did what every best friend does and threw a bachelorette party.  To mix things up, we decided to go to the River Walk in San Antonio, TX.  There were 8 of us in total and I will leave it up to your imagination as to whom the star of this story is.  However, this is obviously CJade’s blog so I’ll go ahead and make the point that she was definitely a witness to what happened (insert dubious smile here).

It was a wonderful night filled with stories about exes, “do you remember the time you”, and about twenty or so shots.  You know?  The norm.  At around 2am we went back to the hotel because it was closing time.  Everyone, of course, cozied in for the night.  (Note to the reader: I may or may not have omitted some key moments that occurred this evening.  Excessive drinking may or may not have occurred after 2am.  Because I have not chosen to write a blog about my life, I do not necessarily want to share those things with the world.  I am, however, giving you the option to read between the lines and use your imagination about what could have possibly happened… until around say…5am that following Sunday morning.)

We all awoke that Sunday, hungover and wishing we were dead bright eyed and bushy tailed.  It was a 3 and 1/2 hour drive northward – not a big deal- and we were all at that point in a vacation where you just want to be home.  This is when it gets scary.

We had an hour left to go.  Wait, did I forget to mention that at hour 2 we stopped at the “Beef Jerky Farm” to buy a pound of habanero beef jerky?  Who wouldn’t?  Duh!

We’re cruising right along (45 minutes left) when I notice that something isn’t right.  My nostrils are twitching. They have somehow caught wind of something that my brain has yet to catch up to.  It’s unmistakable.  It’s a fart.  Yes, I said it.  It’s a fart.

I immediately do what EVERY person does when one is laid in their car.  I roll down the windows and yell.  “Eeeeew!!!! You are soooo disgusting!!!  You have to warn me before you do that!!!  What did you eat (habenero beef jerky)???”  And after a few seconds of us laughing and fake vomiting, I roll up the windows.

The windows are up.

My nose begins to twitch again.

I’m confused.

I look at her curiously.

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She looks at me with a look of horror.  “OH MY GOD!”

The look is unmistakable.  In that one instant I knew what she could not say.

I yell, “LIFT UP! LIFT UP! DO NOT SIT ON MY SEAT!”

She says, “PULL OVER! PULL OVER!”

I say, “GET SOMETHING! PUT SOMETHING UNDERNEATH YOU!”

And I did.  I pulled over to the nearest exit.  And she did.  She grabbed the paper sack the beef jerky came in.

I should also mention that there is a third party in the backseat at this time, the bachelorette, who has been laughing so hard that her her shrieks and tears could easily be mistaken for those of someone in labor.  Mine however, could not be.  I was of course, very worried about my light beige cloth seats.  Neither one of us, the bachelorette or myself, are of any help at all.  All I can do is yell and shove my passenger from my car.  All the soon-to-be-married girl can do is gasp between her laughter and tears.

And this is where the story ends my friends.  I pulled over at the closest, yet most inconvenient place.  She got out and changed her pants using my car door and the nearby dumpster as her cover.  We met our friends who were driving in front of us (and wondering about the hold up) at the Chili’s that was an exit ahead of us.  ”She” passed on the queso they’d just ordered.  Amidst her embarrassed tears and nervous laughter she retold the story just as I’ve now told you.

I love you friend for allowing me to put this story out for all to read.  And oh yeah, you deserve it.