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{June 14, 2011}   Find A Dream Date: Dating
He has some hope erotic encounters with blacks?

It is likely that can happen through an online dating service.

You can feel at ease when you come into contact with people with similar ideas. dating service creates an environment where you can express yourself in both black and as one. The implementation is very easy. This includes friends online adult profiles and photos of black men seeking women for dating you.

Find a Dream First Date - Adult Dating

Find a Dream First Date

Most of the dating site can provide what you want. Sizzling hot and erotic pictures of black to fill their galleries. You can find your dream together. And that blacks are more active and moving around the world.

Many other features dating services can offer. You can find men seeking women and singles dating women seeking men dating site.

Make the most of it could mean putting your best foot forward. You can do this with your dating profile that is created on the website. You do not want to give the impression that you are a careless spelling. Take your time and then can check the spelling or have done a spell check program.

Before he had received a possible date to enter your personal information, in general, dating personals site. The details can be put at risk.


{March 11, 2010}   5 dating secrets for men

While you might think that everyone else on the planet enjoys a spectacular dating life – no dateless weekends – and a flurry of women begging for these other men’s favors and attention, it’s really not true. Don’t believe everything you hear from other men. They may just be bragging and trying to cover their own insecurities!

Young Lovers

Many men tend to botch their chances with the ladies through a number of moves, along with a forced persona – something picked up from a fixation and admiration of Sean Connery, Mel Gibson, or Johnny Depp. Let’s face it. Hollywood does not usually parallel reality.

Here we provide you men with the five best dating secrets for men, written for the ordinary guy, living in reality. These dating secrets should boost your dating success rate exponentially, so listen up.

Christian-Dating

Christian-Dating

1.Your first assignment in our mini-course, ‘Best Dating Secrets for Men’? If you haven’t already read, ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’, pick up a copy and do so now. You’ll find gems of truth with respect to the innate emotional differences between men and women, some of which will be true epiphanies. You’ll learn that men and women often respond entirely differently to the same situation, concept or emotion. What you might find hilarious, your girl might feel scandalized, or think you insensitive. This book is an easy read and provides humorous insights that will help get you in sync with women’s way of thinking. With this new found understanding, you’ll be miles ahead of men who lack this essential information.

2.If you were brought up in a household of loud boys, or just tend to be that way, try to refine the loud, boisterous, macho persona. This persona doesn’t play well with most women. Practice toning down the volume and replace it with a more soft-spoken you. Women usually find the soft-spoken man irresistible and conversely tend to equate ‘loud’ with ‘pushy’, ‘bossy’ and ‘insensitive’. These are not perceptions you want to promote! Practice talking in front of the mirror, or record your normal conversation. You’ll soon get it down. As for diction and demeanor, here’s a good place to emulate some of those slick Hollywood guys mentioned above.

3.Be a good listener. This is one of the quintessential dating secrets for men. Try to show genuine interest in what she has to say. You don’t need to be the center of attention. To women, there’s hardly a more boring date than one where the guy holds forth on everything him, even to the point of cutting the woman off in mid-sentence to continue his me-fest.

4.Don’t indulge in non-constructive criticism. It’s a definite turn off to a woman. Let’s say you don’t care for her dress and feel it’s your duty to point this out. Don’t do it! She obviously went to a lot of trouble to look nice for your date. This type of faux paus belongs in the ‘Dating Secrets for Men – not!’ category.

5.Though it may sound simplistic, one of the key dating secrets for men is: be genuine. Don’t express opinions you don’t subscribe to – she’ll see through the inauthenticity rather quickly and you’ll be scratched off her date list in a single evening.

Do your reading assignment and implement the other four of our dating secrets for men. You’ll soon have more dates than you can fit in to your busy schedule! As the last word, have a good sense of humor. Women will adore you!



If you recall my post on Incredibly Specific Dating Sites (Darwin Dating is still the scariest!), I like to write about the subject. In my opinion, the problem with Internet dating is not meeting people; it’s knowing when to stop meeting people. I should know, because for all intents and purposes, I met my fiancé online. And while sure, some part of finding your other half is simply perseverance and ultimate good fortune, another, perhaps larger part, is knowing the best game plan. Just like in hockey, the way a coach has to know when to pull his goalie, so must those who subscribe to online dating services know when to pull their profiles.

Online Dating Tips for Women

Online Dating Tips for Women

With more than 40 million people using online dating sites now, the very idea of meeting your partner via the Internet is no longer taboo. And it’s awesome that so many people are doing it. But the more people using the services, the more tempting it is to keep your profile up even after you’ve met someone you like. Why? Because someone better could always come down the pike, right? And besides, what if it doesn’t work out with the new person you like? Why miss out on the next person, or the next, or the next…

Speed Dating

Speed Dating

Why indeed. My theory is this: you need to give the person you like a fair shot, without distraction. And if you keep your profile up, you’re not doing that… you’re still playing the field, as it were. Of course, this is just my opinion. You may have another, and if you do, by all means, that’s what the comments are for! Meantime, here are some factoids that aren’t opinion.



Relationships have almost turned out as a reality today. If we compare singles dating with traditional style of meeting a life partner then it develops into a very interesting topic.Try to meet the person in privacy and reveal your heart.Spend a lot of time with this particular person and you might end up enjoying his or her company to a great deal. Start discussing about your likings and disliking as well. Get to talk to this person for hours and hours and just talk and nothing else. You would definitely get a chance to discuss the likes and dislikes and finally when it is time to part you leave.

Online Adult Dating

Online Adult Dating


The next thing in dating would be your frequent meeting in more and more open places holding hands and even kissing. This would be the moment right to confess your love to your sweetheart.It can be a good experience because the idea of online singles dating makes it possible to each and every individual.If the search goes to the right direction then you can definitely come out as a mere winner.Online dating services offers you a dating that is conducted methodically. The vision of web relationship is promising and it can allow you to chat for hours so that you can actually get into the real personality of the individual.
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Using and misusing is clearly two opposite things. You can keep the truth always in mind before registering with an online dating site.One more positive thing about web dating sites is the cost factor. You have to be careful about miscreants. Web dating too is subjected to malpractices by some vested interests. It is due to all these causes and many other reasons that a lot of dating personals think online dating as most convenient. It would definitely sound to be like a nice fairy tale. It can be your own experience because the idea of online dating makes it possible to each and every individual.



If you’re looking for that special someone, but have no idea where to start, Internet dating may be your answer. The Internet provides an absolute perfect way to meet new people and find the person you desire. Internet dating is the best way to connect with people, without having to meet them face to face unless you choose to. Not only do Internet dating services enable you to connect with people, but they will also save you a great deal of time, as you don’t have to go on physical dates just to get to know someone.

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When you join an online dating site, your first step should be to post a personal profile or personal advertisement and a picture of yourself.

The most important thing to remember when writing your profile is that you must be honest. Not only when writing your profile, but also the photo you post. If you’re not honest from the beginning, you will be wasting your money, as the truth will come out.

Online Dating
When writing your headline, always avoid using the words ‘hello’ or ‘hi there,’ as they are too common. Try using humor and make your headline stand out. If you need some ideas, look through some of the profiles already posted. Remember, if your headline doesn’t get attention, the rest of your profile will not be read.

The online dating service you join will provide you with a limited amount of space to post your profile and photo, so make sure you use it wisely. Your profile should be between 200 and 250 words. The first 150 to 200 words should tell your readers all about you. The rest of the words should describe the person you would like to meet.

The photo you post with your profile should actually be of YOU and not someone else. You would be amazed by how many people post a photo of someone they think looks better than them in hopes of meeting someone. Again, you will be wasting your money, as the truth will come out. The photo you post should show you relaxed and smiling. It would be wise to have your picture taken by a professional photographer who specializes in photos that will be posted online.
Internet Dating

When you contact a potential dating partner or are contacted by a potential dating partner, make sure that you take it slow and easy. You need to be patient and take some time to get to know a person before you start making plans to meet, as in the beginning you don’t know anything about this person.

Remember, predators do not waste a lot of time trying to extract personal information. If you don’t provide your real name, and the name of the city in which you really reside quickly, predators will quickly lose interest and move on to easier targets. If your online dating partner is NOT a predator, then he or she will also want to take things slow and not start exchanging personal information too quickly.

In addition, make sure that you only send emails and chat using the on-site email and chat features of the online dating site in which you are a member. Never give out your ISP email address or use other chat programs like ICQ or AIM, as this will reveal your true identity.

After a period of months, not days or weeks…remember predators, and when you have determined that your online dating partner is someone that you would like to meet in person, it is best to schedule that first face to face meeting in a public place and during daylight hours. It is also wise to schedule a very short first meeting – a cup of coffee rather than a meal or an entire evening together.

If it is the real thing, it will grow. If it turns out not to be the real thing, you likely dodged a bullet. Time and patience are the keys to successful internet dating.



{March 11, 2010}   Internet Dating Advice

Is internet dating a good idea? This question is constantly being asked by many different people. In my opinion, internet dating is definitely worth it. However, I do believe that it will not work for every person. Everyone in this world is different, and this leads to different views about how people should live their lives. If you are trying to find someone to have a great relationship with, internet dating is the best way to go.
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From the male perspective, using the internet for dating may not always be the best choice. The reason why is because some guys are players. They enjoy having the freedom to get many women and not be committed in a relationship. If you are only looking to have one night stands, clubs may be a better option. I have been to many different clubs, and most of the women are low quality and sexual.

If you do want a lasting relationship with a woman, internet dating is the right way to go. You should focus on using social networking websites like MySpace and Facebook. This is the only way that you will achieve a high success rate with picking up women. Internet dating saves a lot of time because you can browse profiles. It is pretty easy to figure out whether a girl would be good for you or not. If the girl seems like a party girl and drinks all the time, then she isn’t relationship material.

From the female side of things, if you are going to clubs to find a boyfriend, then you are making a huge mistake. Guys only go to clubs to get women into bed with them. They don’t expect to find a great girl at a club. If you want a random guy to grind on you all night and make out with you, then a club is perfect. Don’t get excited if you start developing feelings for the club guy. He is not focused on having a committed relationship with you.

If you want a great relationship with a man, internet dating should be the first thing on your mind. When you make your social networking profile, make sure that you are being yourself. Don’t ever come across as being a drunken party girl. Guys that want relationships are not looking for these types of women. They want girls that are smart, honest, and fun to be around. There are plenty of great guys out there, and the internet is where they can be found.



I was seeing this guy for five months. We were never exclusive. We became very, very good friends, but live two hours apart so the distance has been an issue in seeing each other. Nevertheless, we were in contact daily, and talked on the phone a LOT, for hours at a time. He is going through a divorce, and basically said he didn’t want to jump right into anything… but wanted to create something that would last. SPL38043_001

About two months ago, we had an argument because of a a misunderstanding, and didn’t talk for almost a week. During this week, he went out with his brother to the bar and met a woman ten years his junior (he’s 33, she’s 23). They hit it off. At the time I didn’t know anything about her, but his attention from me had radically changed. I had suspicions he had met someone else, and so I ended up breaking it off with him as I was tired of five months of this and him not even being able to make a commitment to me.

They became exclusive almost immediately. In the meantime, he tells me “not to stop talking” to him and that I am his “best friend.” I tried to do this for a couple of weeks, but decided it was just too painful. I want him as more than a friend. So last week I told him I didn’t want him to contact me anymore. He was furious… told me he had considered me a real friend, not some “loose usage of the word,” and if that’s what I wanted then fine, I had it. I responded back and told him just for now, as my feelings for him were too strong, and when I got through them, I hoped we’d be friends again.

He responded that wasn’t acceptable. I can’t just ditch people on a whim and this was it. So we haven’t spoken in nearly a week. Now I’m second-guessing myself. I really care about him, and could see us being very happy together… we were very compatible, got along well, enjoyed each others’ company, etc.

If I want hope of us ever being together, would it be better to remain friends?? Or just take this time of no contact to get over it, and possibly contact him in a few months? By that time, he’ll either be in love with this girl or will have figured out she’s not the one.



I’ve got a female friend that wants to get into the adult webcam biz. I’m thinking about ways to help her make money and of course make some myself.39122webcam-morpher-gold

Maybe a JV with someone already driving traffic to affiliate sites, and to models etc?
Or maybe someone e-whoring that wants to JV?

Looking for some advice or opinions etc.
She’s willing to do niche type stuff (milf, nurse, etc. costumes) no hardcore tho.

I’m thinking twitter profile, dating site profiles, CL ads etc. Pre-recorded videos, selling her own content to webmasters etc.

Looking at the imlive scenario, they take quite a bit of commission and you have to sit in free chat and convert etc. in order to produce $$$ at a higher per minute rate.
I don’t think there’s enough $$$ in that unless customers get driven to her page.

Maybe someone can drive paying customers and we set up a partnership or commission for a partner? or partners?

pm me if you have any ideas, or JV etc.



{November 1, 2009}   Make a friend smile

Someone copying you is supposed to be the highest form of flatery. It might not seem like it when you are 10 and your 8 year-old-brother has to do everything you do, including touch your Barbies and make G.I. Joe invade the Barbie dream house. Oh, just me, okay then.

There are many, many people that I want to be like for various reasons. Another blogger gave me the perfect reason to call them out.

I saw a tweet yesterday from @ResourcefulMom and decided to check it out. She was tweeting about #FriendshipExperiment, started by another blogger at jessicaknows.com. This had “unexpected smile” written all over it. I could share my gratitude for my friends, make them smile and introduce them to the world so maybe you could connect with them. Maybe their musings will make you smile too. (I don’t have a lot of friends who are publicly online, but here are a few of them who are pretty interesting!)

To read more about the #FriendshipExperiement, visit Jessica’s post.

Here are my five.
The Minivan Diaries – Michelle, the author of this blog, is a good friend. I appreciate how strong she is as an employee, as a woman and as a mom. She’s great. One day, she will take over the world.
Brew Another Cup – The author of this blog, Jes, is someone who I have read for a few years now. She’s incredibly determined and productive and I wish I was that way.
Blue Water Scents – First of all, this is a small, Michigan-based, woman business owner. Woo hoo for economic stimulation. Second, she makes yummy smelling things that are a little piece of Heaven. And, she tweets more than I do.
bestefriend.com – This woman, Courtney, runs like a million sites, or maybe like four. But her motivation and her follow-through are amazing and inspiring. Plus, she gives me advice. I like her for that.
Last, but certainly not least, my best friend, Laura. You can find her on Twitter at @laura_angus. What to say about Laura other than I would have lost my sanity years ago if it wasn’t for her. Distance is no match for our friendship. She’s awesome.

I hope my friends smile a bit when they see that I do appreciate what they do in the world and in my life. They are each great people for what they do. I hope you enjoy meeting them as well. Now, it’s your turn.



Have you ever wondered where all your friends from college are? Or have you wondered if anyone is looking for you? With today technologies, looking for your old friends becomes much easier to manage.

MyLife website makes this task possible to locate anyone on your wish list. Not only this website allows you to search for old friends, it also lets you see who is looking for you! It is one of largest sites on the internet to search for people that you want to reconnect, or curious about.

One very special person to me that I periodically looking for is a lady that I’ve met through our marriages. Since both of our marriages failed, and we moved many times during these times, we both lost contact. Therefore, I went on MyLife website and entered the information that I last known about her for a search.

The returning results were overwhelming with so many people with the same name, location, and age. Therefore, I narrowing down a bit further to her maiden name, her home place in Pennsylvania, and finally tracked her to her home in California!

It turned out that she has also been searching for me, and we are both happy to be able to get back in touch. Our relationship is a once in a life time special bond when we share so much of the same thoughts, feelings, and passions, and it is not easy to establish.

We have planned for a reunion this Fall to reminisce the first time we met! If you are looking for someone special in your life, check out this website, and reconnect with that person.



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